Account of abortion from a nurse’s perspective
Account of abortion from a nurse’s perspective
The author, Sallie Tisdale describes her account of abortion in the article, ” We Do Abortions Here: A Nurse’s Story.” She uses her life experience to illustrate what the nurses goes through when procuring abortions.
The nurse starts the article by describing how she usually re-assures herself after carrying out an abortion procedure. She states that whenever she feels that she cannot stand the site of seeing more blood stained basins, she would utter a few words to re-assure herself. This conduct of reassuring oneself(not the abortion act) can be supported Lachman et al, who asserts that advocacy of patients entails nurses protecting and supporting their patients. However, according to Cohen (2006) nurses regularly find themselves in unethical circumstances that conflicts with their professional and personal morals. In my opinion, the nurse encourages herself since she clearly knows that what she is doing is wicked since she describes the procedure as a chafing loss.
Tisdale expresses her emotions during her course of work. She describes how she gains strength by talking to patients and expresses the effect such conversations have in her. She states, “some clients awaken in me every tender urge I have” and in other statement she admits that the power of abortion can provoke emotion. In an article by Dolores (2011), the author states that carrying out abortion takes a great weight on the emotion of nurses. Similarly, Tesoriero (2005) notes that conscience on both the nurse and the patient in never at ease regardless on the side taken on the abortion issue. This shows that sometimes nurses can feel emotional when aiding in abortion and, this are shown where the nurse admits that she feels compassion for the patients.
The writer justifies abortion by defending the procedure. She claims that nurses who procure abortion cannot refuse since each abortion is a message of their lack to protect patients. She also states that if the fetus develops, it can ruin others. Allyson (2008) believes that nurses feel difficult to deal with the consequences of what happened. This means that nurses who carry out abortion usually feel unpleasant carrying out the practice. However, they console themselves in order to be able to live with the guilt.
Tisdale states that birth control pills have higher failure rate than what laboratory trials predict. She justifies this by the number of patients who use birth control such as vasectomy and their wives fall pregnant. No method of birth control is perfect (Ferguson, (2006) but, Glasier (2002) states that some have a higher failure rate than others. In my opinion, there is no proof that the wives of such men were impregnated by their husbands. Thus, such women becoming pregnant is not a valid evidence of laboratories test failures since the number of cheating spouses in the current human race is on the rise.
The writer deceives a client on her infant status/gender and, this illustrates why health personnel carrying out abortions lie to their clients. She points a situation where the husband of one of her patients visited the clinic with the wife. He claimed that if the wife was about to abort a boy, he would have wrung her neck. Usually, nurses lie to relief fear from patients Katie et al, (2009) and this prevents unnecessary anxiety (Austin, 2001). I would argue that after a nurse evaluates a situation, partial deception of client in cases where more complications are likely to occur is justifiable and necessary to prevent further problems.
In the course of doing abortions, the nurse seems to have developed some form of ignorance. She supports her claim by indicating that she aided procurement of many abortions and leaves the clients to carry their own burden and responsibility. This is with regard to number and what stage they want to perform an abortion. Nurses dislike truth and knowledge which obstructs ignorance.(Allyson, 2008) This shows ignorance when it comes to performing abortion is a prerequisite for one continue aiding abortions.
The writer experiences nightmares and admits that in order for nurses to do such a job, they are required to live with conflict. He/she needs to develop a new set of assumptions. Most nurses cannot admit that they have ever procured an abortion.(Eileen, 2009) In reality, 61 percent of nurses object to being part of the procedure.(Davies Et al, 2012) In my opinion, this is because in their conscience, they know their actions are unethical as the issue lays heavily in their mind due to the moral values attached to life.
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